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Anon who is having problems spending time with their little:
hi:) I think unfortunately tumblr was down or experiencing problems which was why part of the message disappeared! (Yes I googled this!). I don’t think spontaneous plans would be too creepy as long as it doesn’t happen every day of the week. Maybe it is somehow possible that there is a really big misunderstanding and you both think the other doesn’t like each other! I can, however, completely relate to how you feel right And I know it really sucks.
Hi! I think your very first message somehow didn’t send but from what I gather your little wont respond to messages or hang out and has “joined” another family line? I really hope you can work this out too. I don’t know if you have tried this, but try finding out when she has a lunch break or break between classes and just run into her on campus and make “spontaneous” plans then and there… And hopefully she will realize how much she has been missing out on. At events do what you can to sit with her and whoever else she is sitting with to spend more time together too.
These are some non-confrontational ways one of my chapter sisters actually has been using for a similar little problem (except we don’t have the whole adoption term on my campus) .. If you need to be a little more obvious, try sending her obvious “haven’t seen my little in ages miss you are you free tomorrow” via twitter, or on her fb wall so then she might feel more obliged to reply than a more private text message she might accidentally overlook!
I hope this helps in some way, or someone may reply with better advice!
Hi! I am so sorry to hear this - I can hardly believe it! However, if you are going to do SO much to try to build a friendship and she seemingly could care less, I can understand why you would want to bring your efforts elsewhere. She doesn’t seem like the type of person to deserve your friendship anyways if she is like that! At least you know you tried. I hope you don’t feel defeated, because it really was nothing you could control. I really commend you on your efforts though and any sister would be lucky to have you as a little. Keep in touch I’m always here to talk :)
I am looking for suggestions of cute slogans to put on the back of family line shirts. We have already done the “keep calm and text my big” “little gets what little wants” but I want to have something new to bring to the chapter.MY RESPONSE: Hi! The only other one that I have seen that I can think of is “like big” and “like little” … I really like matching family line letters because it looks so neat and pretty in family photos, especially when the fabric pattern is really unique.. You don’t need to worry tooo much if you don’t have something to go on the back you could even put a family name if you have one :) If anyone has any other suggestions let us know!!